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This is not to say that an AS won’t get intensely involved in talking to the opposite sex (or the same sex if they are gay or lesbian) online about asphalt or fiberglass boats. (If sex gets a ranking.) Unlike the crafty NT’s, who can work out sometimes elaborate ruses to achieve their aims, you can pretty much guess the motives of an AS, once you know them well. Behaviors can be confusing, though: “Why did my wife start eating the meal she cooked, without telling us that dinner was ready? She started eating because the meal was cooked and she forgot to call her family. I think this is because unlike an NT, an AS will probably be responding honestly, in the moment, or to internal stimulus.
It just means if he’s up until 3 AM chatting with another woman, it’s probably about asphalt or fiberglass boats…To truly love an Aspie, recognize that some people will be more engaging and exciting to talk to about asphalt or fiberglass boats. It may be hard for NT’s to predict, because other NT’s do things out of obligation, or to “please” their partners, regardless of whether it is actually something they want to do or not.
Once you do, you will have a pretty good idea what to expect.
No, they don’t ‘dish the dirt’ about other people, and they may not even call you on your birthday, unless you specifically direct them to, and program it into their smartphone.
But they can talk endlessly about mutually fascinating subjects and can be enormously interesting and fun.
Okay, so many people right off are going to say any “Reason to Love an Aspie” are generalizations and these aren’t true of everybody with Aspergers Syndrome.
They say, (and with good reason,) “If you’ve met one person with Aspergers, you’ve met one person with Aspergers.” But there are generalizations you can make about why to love an Aspie, and like all generalizations, of course, they won’t hold true for everybody.