Some people like to be asked if they can be kissed, and if you’re still not sure how your date feels at the end of the night, then you could always try this more direct approach.
Perhaps it’s a little old fashioned, but some people – especially women – appreciate being asked, partly because that means they can always say ‘no’ if they feel uncomfortable.
When a duckling hatches from its shell it will imprint and follow the first thing it sees even if it is not its mother – someone who is in ‘love’ can make a very strong attachment to someone with a minimal amount of encouragement, just a smile or a kind word is often enough to get their affection.
They are keen to find someone who feels the same way so the good feelings they have can be shared and prolonged.
Some people, however, seem to need no encouragement or signs from the other person – they fall in love repeatedly – often with people who aren’t interested, or available, and often with sad consequences.
Here’s how to be as sure as you can be that you’re making the right move.
They live in a state of love whether there is someone there to love or not.
When a good prospect comes along their natural state is heightened as their imagination begins to work overtime as they conjure up visions of what a wonderful future they will have together.
Although you may not have much choice over how many times you feel the feelings of love for someone you do have some choice over how often you express it and who to.
Being someone who falls in love easily is an advantage when it comes to dating because you don’t have to dismantle your own fears and defences to let someone in but imagine if you could only give your gift of love once more in your life.